PinnedTen Days with DadWhen Alzheimer’s becomes a story about you Within four years of his Alzheimer’s diagnosis, my Dad could no longer drive, cook, or properly take his medications. My brothers and I took turns visiting him to ensure he was set for the coming day. …Alzheimers3 min readAlzheimers3 min read
Sep 1, 2022Member-onlyPerfection is the enemy of livingAccording to writer Joseph Epstein, “81 percent of Americans feel that they have a book in them — and should write it.” My wife refuses to believe this statistic. Further research on the topic (okay, one Google search) indicated that only 3% of aspiring authors finish a manuscript and only…Perfection4 min readPerfection4 min read
Jan 15, 2022Member-onlyIs it Passion or a Seasonal Obsession?Beware: There’s a difference. — My ADHD used to play tricks on me. I would find a project and become hyper focused on it for months. I was all-in, whether it was starting a new business, running for office, or creating an app. One year my brother-in law called to ask me if I had…4 min read4 min read
Dec 21, 2021Member-onlyHome is where your story beginsAn excerpt from my upcoming book: Ten Days with Dad: finding purpose, passion, and peace during the darkest days of Alzheimer’s Home is where your story begins. Stenciled on our kitchen wall for more than twelve years, I saw those six words every day. They were just words on the…Family4 min readFamily4 min read
Dec 17, 2021Member-onlyHALFWAY TO 2,500!My Christmas Wish If one more person tells me it doesn’t feel like Christmas, I might lose it. I don’t begrudge them — the virus is back (did it ever really leave), tornados are ripping through Minnesota (in December), it’s almost 60 degrees in Boston today, and I am still…Christmas Wishes2 min readChristmas Wishes2 min read
Dec 16, 2021Member-onlyMy Dad was the Ultimate Submarine ParentBelow is an excerpt from my new book, Ten Days with Dad: finding purpose, passion, and peace during the darkest days of Alzheimer’s. It takes about eighteen months before you get to know someone, at least that’s what Laura Schlessinger, more commonly known as Dr. Laura, says on her weekly…Book Excerpts3 min readBook Excerpts3 min read
Dec 13, 2021Member-onlyPork Chop HillExcerpt from my first soon-to-be-published non-fiction novel: Ten Days with Dad: fining purpose, passion, & peace during the darkest days of Alzheimer’s and a global pandemic Before closing its doors for good in 1993, St. Margaret’s Hospital in Dorchester was once the largest maternity hospital in Massachusetts. Several notable Bostonians…Markjresnick6 min readMarkjresnick6 min read
Mar 26, 2021Member-onlyWhat’s worse: the car accident or subsequent car shopping experience?My Kia Sedona minivan was three months shy of being fully paid off. Not having a car payment is like not having credit card debt. It’s an amazing feeling and something in which to be proud. But on St. Patrick’s Day, another vehicle blew threw a four-way stop intersection and…Buying A Car4 min readBuying A Car4 min read
Mar 25, 2021Member-onlyWhy applying to 18 colleges is a bad ideaThe most successful person in my family applied to only two schools Four seniors in my daughter’s all-girl Catholic high school applied to 18 or more colleges. Another dozen or so applied to 12+ colleges. That doesn’t sound too bad, right? …College5 min readCollege5 min read